kink and also gender and sexuality stuff
Anyways. If anybody is curious why I keep ending up with lesbians with complex relationships with their genders, that's why.
kink and also gender and sexuality stuff
I've had a few men want to own me. But I think one got spooked by the straight-presenting thing, and the others lived too far away.
I don't know.
I think it's fine. I'm happy.
I just never wrote this all out.
Cis and hetro don't fit. But neither does anything else.
kink and also gender and sexuality stuff
kink and also gender and sexuality stuff
It's weird, though.
I don't think I have a strong preference between the top and bottom. But as a masc switch who's happy taking the top role, I almost always end up owning a fem sub.
I have a handful of friends whose brains work like mine does. And they've each expressed interest in owning me. But it kind of always works out the other way around.
kink and also gender and sexuality stuff
Like, I tend to think of myself as straight. But also I would 100% rather own or be owned by a man than not be in a relationship based on ownership.
And if I had an owner who wasn't happy with my gender presentation, I don't think changing it would cause any significant dysphoria?
I don't know. The #kink side just makes that other stuff seem... small to me.
kink and also gender and sexuality stuff
Okay, so like, my gender and sexual orientation are both almost entirely irrelevant to me. But, like, #TPE is something I can't live without. It's just who I am.
Like, I guess "my type" is generally feminine. But also my type shifts very quickly to match whoever I happen to be with.
And, like, without interference my body is quite masculine. And since I don't care, that kinda makes me cis by default.
It just seems like fundamentally the wrong questions.
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30 Canada Mostly Shitposting, Some Kink. Culturally gay.